Focus on what you do want!

Approximately, 97% of world population in the world, focus on what they don't want and only 3% of people focus on what they do want. It is a tragic story that few people get what they want because they focus on getting things they truly desire.

The majority of people lead 'a life of quite desperation' because they are not trained to be calm, quiet and peaceful. They are stressed out in life so much that they hardly feel the urge to focus on good things. It is a reality that the media all over the world present one kind of news and information. The media gives what people don't want and they show as if they are correct while people who want health, wealth, money, abundance, they show as not good, or corrupt.

It is important to know what you want and move towards them. Knowing is not enough, moving towards it is the most important thing. So learn to focus on your wants and they will come to you. However don't focus on what you don't want.

When you focus on what you want, you become eligible to get them and you are in line with attracting wealth, harmony and peace. Affirm the things that you want. Visualize them always so that they become real and true. In order to make it more real, you must feel the power that will help you get the things you want.

The whole world is trying to conspire you to focus on what you don't want, don't give your attention to it. You instead focus on what you do want by all means. There is a great power in focusing what you do want. So allow everything that you want to manifest in your life.

Focus on what you do want to enjoy the abundant world. You are rich, abundant and prosperous. So get what you want by focusing on them day in and day out, 24/7.

Alwed Ekka
Guide Coach Mentor

With our conscious efforts we can achieve all that we want.

Jim Rohn said,"some people find things easy to do and others find easy not to do."

With our conscious efforts we can achieve almost anything that we want. However it takes a consistent discipline to make things easy to do. Those who decide to take the first step they really accomplish their mission. They don't wait for things to happen by itself. Things will not happen or change by itself without external efforts because as the law of nature says that 'a thing in motion remains in motion and a thing in inertia tends to be static.'

It requires our genuine efforts and willingness to do something. It takes our conscious decision to learn how to use computer, how to record the audio using audacity software or learning how to play baseball and golf. In the absence of conscious efforts, nothing much is achieved in life. Those who get great success they understand the reality of taking always a conscious action.

For example, in the office, the table will be filled with cluttered things and they will most likely remain their as long as a person decides consciously to remove them. If he doesn't remove it because he is lazy, the table will remain cluttered and it will become more cluttered over the period.

So, it proves the statement true that without the conscious efforts from individuals there are no major changes or application. It is only when there is consciousness in performing any particular task that the work really gets completed.

You won't read if you don't decide to read this article consciously. If you want to bring about major changes in your life, learn to do any activity with full consciousness. It will work miracles for you because it makes sense when conscious efforts are involved.

Alwed Ekka
Guide Coach Mentor

Your Imagination is more important than knowledge.

The most important education an individual can acquire is through imagination. Imagination is the beginning of all knowledge. Imagination is limitless. The schools and colleges provide knowledge to the students but they don't develop their imaginative skills. The schools expect the students to give the ready made answers and they don't encourage them to innovate new ideas or answers.

The schools fail to provide the foundational education for the students and this is possible only through the imagination of each student. The schools must act like a facilitator but they don't follow this path rather they provide all the answers to the questions they think they are the final and absolute answers.

Remember your imagination is more important than your acquired knowledge because acquired knowledge become obsolete within a short span of time but imagination is always fresh and new. It is available all the time in any generation or time. Therefore consider your imagination as the most important and valuable education in life.

It is through imagination, that we all are enjoying the breakthrough of modern technology and science. Human imagination has the capacity to alter one's course of life and make it a better one.

You can create and achieve your goals, dreams and visions only through imagination and not through knowledge. Bill Gates dropped the college studies because the college didn't feed his imagination, his dreams rather college only fed him with the ready made answers which were not relevant to his time. Imagination is powerful if you use it for your benefits and progress.

Write down all your goals and imagine of accomplishing them all within the stipulated time and space. All those successful people apply imagination all the time to succeed in life. They use it to become rich, start new businesses and to make investments in assets that generate constant passive cash flow. They use it to create a new story for themselves, the new lifestyle.

Use your imagination to have all that you desire or create during your life time. You can create a better, happy and rich future for yourself if you want. There is plenty and abundance in imagination.

How can you use it? You must close your eyes and imagine all the things that you want them to happen in your life. It is important that you imagine or visualize them often as many times as you can. It is possible to improve your life situation through imagination.

"IMAGINATION IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN KNOWLEDGE." Albert Einstein

Alwed Ekka
Guide Coach Mentor

Do you love yourself first?

We have often heard the saying from the New Testament where Jesus says, "Love your neighbour as you love yourself." Many people think that we should love others first and then later we must love ourselves. The meaning is very deep here. What it means here actually is to be SELFISH by loving ourselves first and it is never to be unselfish first. Everything starts from within ourselves and it spreads outward. It is wise to ask a question, do we love ourselves first?

Many people don't really feel worthwhile and valuable as a result they don't love themselves. The poor self-esteem makes a person to like oneself less and less degrading one's worth. People don't really know about themselves and they don't get any encouragement from others, which causes them to shift their priorities on others rather than on themselves. They do everything for others, they try to be good friends, or love others etc. just to feel loved or important. But this is a wrong strategy. Self-esteem is an important aspect of our personality. Those who have good self-esteem, they are happier, richer and healthier in life.

The other day I found one of my students looked very sick, down and inactive and I asked Arem whether she loved herself. She paused for a while and thought about it and then she replied, 'no'. I was curious to know why she didn't love herself. She said, she didn't feel worthy and important. She thought that by loving others she was loving herself but in reality she didn't.

Then I asked her whether she admired herself or not in the mirror. She said she wouldn't do that because it sounded so silly. Anyway, I encouraged her to see herself in the mirror and say "I love you Arem, you are a beautiful girl, you have a lovely smile." It was very awkward to her. Upon my insistence, she agreed and looked herself into the mirror and loudly affirmed that she loved herself and she was beautiful with a lovely smile.

Arem is indeed a beautiful girl but her poor self-esteem doesn't let her focus on the positive aspects of life. She always thinks negative about herself, though in reality there is no negative about her. Like Arem there are millions who don't consider themselves lovable, beautiful and attractive. Instead, they limit themselves and live a low profile life.

If we closely study this case we will find that people actually have wrong notion about their personality, appearance and attitude. They think they are not special as a result not worthy of appreciation and love. People must begin to love themselves first as much as they can and if they do this, their whole attitude towards them will change and become a better one.

Once I helped Arem to admire herself, she felt convinced that she was indeed a beautiful young girl and nobody was like her in the whole world. The sick feeling that she had, disappeared at once when she affirmed and believed her qualities. She was emotionally sick and she needed an encouragement from others to support her that she was very special and important. People normally don't feel special until others make them feel but it is rare when others will come and say nice things about you.

Jesus when he taught people to love neighbours as they love themselves presupposed that they really loved themselves first and then if they came across anyone they should love in the same manner they loveed themselves. There is no second or third way to love. There is one way and that is to love oneself first and then extend that love to others.

When I was a teenager, I didn't like myself so much because I had pimples on my face. It bothered me so much when I compared myself with other friends. It drained my energy and I began to withdraw myself from facing people. I thought they would not accept me as I was. My self-esteem was very low and I was under stress and frustration. I couldn't understand why things happened to me. But as I grew towards maturity, I had a better understanding about myself and life. I accepted myself as I was and I loved and pampered myself by buying flowers, books, gifts and foods. It made me to think I was special and important and very unique.

It takes a ton of education to change our perception or attitude towards life and ourselves. If we don't have enough right knowledge, we don't really value and consider things important. If we love ourselves first, we can indeed love anybody as we wish and desire.

Alwed Ekka
Guide Coach Mentor

What do you think about the rich people?

Whenever I get a chance after the conversation, I usually ask people this question, "What do you think about the rich people? Do you want to be rich?" I get varieties of replies and those replies at times fascinate me because once I also used to think like those people. When you ask around we get the usual replies that the rich are corrupt, crooks, cheats, greedy, uncaring and that they don't value other people etc.

Such thinking is prevalent in every country, society or family. I asked once one of my students, Parky whether he ever wanted to be rich. His reply was always no. He didn't have any ambition to be rich or earn a big money. He just wanted to get by in life and nothing much. He thought that rich people became rich only through corrupt ways, by frauds and cheating. According to his thinking money was the greatest problem in the world because it didn't make people happy. He thought people who had more money, they didn't care for others, instead they neglected them.

Parky's reasoning was that rich people didn't have any values or manners. Their main focus or priority was only money and not friendship, people, love or values. So he didn't want to be rich though he thought money was good.

There are many people like Parky who don't have good understanding, knowledge and information regarding the rich people or prosperity. They think through conventional mind and they get carried away by others' opinions. Of course there are drawbacks of rich people at the same time there are enough positive points too.

Rich people may be good or may be bad because of their ideology or philosophy. If their philosophy is correct and makes positive impact in the world then their ideology is genuine and they are too truthful. However, there are people whose philosophy is not up to the mark then they mislead the whole world. Having a good philosophy towards money, wealth, health, relationship are important and it is needed in the society.

People can be rich in two ways, tangible and intangible ways and both ways are important to create a worthwhile lifestyle. The purpose of becoming rich must be very clear and if they focus on their ultimate purpose they can be perceived as genuine and real.

Rich people are not actually bad however there are few who are corrupt and defamed ones. Rich people do feed many employees and their families by providing employment because they feel a sense of responsibility. There is nothing wrong with being rich if the motive is good and positive.

People can become rich in the following ways. I guess this explains and clarifies your doubts and questions about the rich.

People become rich by inheriting the fortunes from their parents or family. The legacy of a family continues and the fortune is inherited and shared by the respective family members. The children who inherit money from their parents get no real exposure or experience. The children reap the hard work of their parents. For some this may not appeal so much because there are few people in the world who are eligible to inherit fortunes. The percentage is less.

The second way people can become rich is by marrying for money. In other words, if you get the chance to come across rich woman or man, you can consider the offer. This again doesn't look so attractive though it is so desirable. I had an offer to marry for money, but I declined it because I didn't find any meaning or didn't give a sense of achievements. It didn't make me a person I wanted to be. It may appeal to some but not all.

The third ways people can become rich is by winning the lottery and yet the percentage of lottery winners is less. There is not much gain in it but for people it looks cool because they seem lucky and chosen. This may not work for all.

The fourth and fifth ways the people become rich is by cheap and crook. Yet the world hates the rich people who are cheap and crooked. This types of rich people are not appreciated or loved because they are fallen down in the eyes of the world. And because of these cheap and crooks, young boys and girls don't like to be rich. They don't have any ambition to be rich. People generally mix up the rich and people consider them as all bad or cheap.

The best way to be rich is by becoming an enterprising person- the entrepreneurship. Steve Jobs became an entrepreneur and today he has become a leading figure in the world. He didn't inherit the fortune, he didn't marry for money, he didn't win lotteries nor did he become rich by being cheap or crooked. He developed his own self and upon improving his skills, talents and passion, he ventured into the world of business. This is the best way to be rich and this is not bad. This way of becoming rich is the self-actualization and it is possible only when people pursue their passion, what they love truly.

Bill Gates pursued what he loved and computer was his real passion, he put all his efforts in realizing the goal. He too didn't inherit fortune, didn't marry for money, didn't win lottery, didn't play cheap or crook but he became an entrepreneur and that made a big difference in his life. He used his God's given abilities, talents, skills and love to become rich. He designed his own lifestyle.

The people who became rich through entrepreneurship are truly rich and that path is not wrong. It takes care of all people possible. It feeds workers' families by giving jobs. These rich people provide values and life support for many families. I don't think this is bad to be rich.

People should understand that getting happiness is possible in both ways being rich or not being rich. Being happy is the responsibility of individual and money is not accountable by itself. Rich people who are the founders of large organizations do care about people.

Alwed Ekka
Guide Coach Mentor

We Create Everything Through Conscious Efforts and There is no Luck.

People when they lose their consciousness, the medical doctors declare them dead and non-living. The moment a patient loses his ability to remember and think about the past, present and future, he/she has no way to be alive again. In my opinion, the conscious mind is as important as the subconscious mind.

The subconscious mind may not die but it can't give awareness to the human mind as a result their body remains motionless and non-active. The world is something like the subconscious mind, the universe exists all the time, in eternity and there is no end to it, but when there is no consciousness in the body, the universe looks as if it is limited. The universe can't be understood alone by one hemisphere of the brain. It requires both sides of the hemisphere to maintain one's existence.

We all exist in the Universe and we can't run away and hide from the universe because there is nothing that can hide us. It is akin to the fish hiding in the lake under the rock, but it can't hide from the water, the same way we can't be lost. The fish which is scared and hides behind the rock and the people who are scared of lions will hide behind the rock too and they do it consciously. If we don't have any consciousness, then we won't fear anything or won't hide anywhere. We will be standing like a rock, not afraid of anything. The lion may climb on the rock yet the rock doesn't run away from the lion.

The point I am trying to bring out here is that we are all created in consciousness and we in turn create our reality in consciousness. We create everything through our conscious effort and there is no luck game. We need to consciously create and shape our future as we want to have and live. However, we can create the future according to our level of consciousness and we are responsible for all that happens to us without our knowledge.

We exist in this universe as one stretched being called universe which has no end or beginning. Let me give you an analogy of a digital photo. When you zoom out or enlarge the photo on the computer screen, it looks big and as you keep enlarging the photo, the photo begins to expand, it gets enlarged so much that we can't even identify our nose or eyes or head. Everything looks like dotted colours. If we show others the enlarged photo where there is no concrete picture, others will not notice the picture because the photo is enlarged to the maximum level that it looks plain, empty and vacuum. They may think that we are crazy. But in reality, there is a picture right in it. But as we zoom in, the photo begins to shape up in its original picture and now we can see the photo really. At an approximate distance, we can spot the photo, but we can't see the same photo at other approximate distance.

This is the nature of the universe. We are not torn apart from the other parts of the universe. We are all in the universe connected at our own approximate distance, where we are supposed to exist or carry out the necessary functions. We are the conscious being so as much as a spiritual being. We don't die in spirit, that means we continue to live in subconscious or unconscious part of our brain. It is never a finished chapter of life.

In my opinion, there was no big bang as proposed by some well-known scientists as such and there will be no big bang in the light years to come. Because if we say there was a 'big bang' and the universe started with a big bang then we presuppose that there was a big bag or big balloon like bag where all the galaxies were clubbed together and when more galaxies joined the big balloon, the balloon lost its capacity and burst like a big bang and the universe started. It never happened this way because universe is filled with consciousness and it is the universe. There is nothing outside. All the space that we see in the sky with stars, planets or galaxies, they exist at their approximate distance to be parts of the Universe. There is no big bang theory or God creating the Universe in six days and took rest on the seventh day. It's only man's imagination and creation because man is a conscious being and possesses the ability to create his lifestyle.

We are god particles and we are one with the universe. We can't say there is a separate entity or being that created us. The universe has created us through the programming and we have been following the programs. That means, we have been fed with all kinds of commands and we carry out those commands accurately by our both right brain and left brain.

We must never come to the conclusion about the universe by seeing through our physical eyes. We must view the world through unconscious or the spiritual aspects of our brain and that makes some good sense to understand the universe. We are not trained to see what we haven't seen in our life time. In this 21st century, we are not seeing what our future generations will see in the decades or centuries to come just like our past ancestors couldn't notice many things of present time.

The universe is filled with energy and we are part of that energy. We exist because that massive energy exists every where in the universe. We are here on earth, but we don't get the whole picture of the universe. We are just seeing only a small fraction of the universe just like our toes are far from our head.

So since we are conscious beings and we have unconscious capacity, we can create whatever we want in our reality that means in our life. If you want wealth, you can have it, if you want a beautiful wife, you can have it, if you want a boy baby you can have it; if you want to be healthy and live for thousands of years possibly you can. We can all that we want provided we understand the true nature of the conscious energy and the universe then apply it.

Alwed Ekka
Guide Coach Mentor

Jill Bolte Taylor's stroke of insight | Video on TED.com

Wow! This video is amazing and impressive. She shares the most valuable insights about two hemispheres of human brain. It confirms my thinking and understanding about human brain. I am glad that she has made a point to speak up to the whole world.
Jill Bolte Taylor's stroke of insight | Video on TED.com