Showing posts with label Consciousness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Consciousness. Show all posts

Monday, January 3, 2011

Change / Choice / Decision

Here below are the quotes of Jim Rohn. Hope they inspire and instruct you to start a new beginning at the start of new year...

"One of the best places to start to turn your life around is by doing whatever appears on your mental "I should" list." Jim Rohn


"Indecision is the thief of opportunity." Jim Rohn


"Every life form seems to strive to its maximum except human beings. How tall will a tree grow? As tall as it possibly can. Human beings, on the other hand, have been given the dignity of choice. You can choose to be all or you can choose to be less. Why not stretch up to the full measure of the challenge and see what all you can do?" Jim Rohn


"You cannot change your destination overnight, but you can change your direction overnight." Jim Rohn


"Decision making can sometimes seem like inner civil war." Jim Rohn


"Don't say, "If I could, I would." Say, "If I can, I will." Jim Rohn


"It doesn't matter which side of the fence you get off on sometimes. What matters most is getting off!" Jim Rohn


"You cannot make progress without making decisions." Jim Rohn


"We generally change ourselves for one of two reasons: inspiration or desperation."Jim Rohn


"If you don't like how things are, change it! You're not a tree." Jim Rohn


"I used to say, "I sure hope things will change." Then I learned that the only way things are going to change for me is when I change." Jim Rohn





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Tuesday, November 23, 2010

Stand Firm For Your Values And Integrity!

Never ever compromise on your values and principles that you stand firm. If you believe on something, you must stick to it because that will set you free or reward you at the end. Stand firm on what you believe and value because that is what you must do. It is important to believe in your philosophy, values and integrity. Your integrity will finally win you a great reward that you desire.

Why am I urging people to stand firm on what they believe and value? The reason is very obvious, we win in life only when we stand for something and that which is ethical. Sometimes, a killing doubt may arise so strongly that you may feel like giving up your values and philosophies for immediate results and outcome. But these immediate results that you seek are not permanent and lasting. They fade away as the days go by and similarly you begin to fade away too.

You should never lose your credibility and the respect for what you are and who you are. Remember to keep yourself strong enough to stand firm for what you believe.

Here is an example of what can happen when a doubt in mind arises. My wife applied for a driving license and I suggested her to go directly without the help of any agents because we didn't want to bribe anyone. She agreed and filled the form on her own. She couldn't pass the test at first attempt while others who had failed in the test passed despite failing because they had arranged some ways to clear the test by paying some bribes. Anyway, we didn't pay any money and my decided to appear for the second time.

On the second day of her test, my wife began to doubt whether she would be able to clear the test or not. I assured her that she would be able to pass the test. But there was a strong feeling to give the values and philosophy that we stand for all these years just for the immediate results. We did inquire people who had applied for license through some agents and they charged them some big money. We hesitated to pay them because it was against our values and integrity.

I would say there was a war within our mind. Whether to give up what we stand for and clear the test by paying some amount. There was a temptation because we never wanted to waste our time the whole day. Anyway, we sat down quietly and then closed our eyes to think about it. We realised that we were not firm instead we were shaken up by the crowds who have no integrity and values.

We decided not to give up our values and philosophy. Instead, I encouraged my wife to give the test and to our surprise she passed her driving test. It was a great moment of joy and happiness. We felt better and relaxed because it was a war within us.

The lesson we learned here is that we should never give up what we believe to be true and real. The values and philosophies do come to our rescue and when we stand firm for the truth, we win. We become victorious and gain much confidence. We are strong in our beliefs now and we want to stand firmly for our integrity, credibility and philosophy. You can too stand firm for the truth that you believe and surely it will make you a winner.

Alwed Ekka
Guide Coach Mentor

Tuesday, November 16, 2010

You Are Your Own God And Saviour!

In the ancient time people looked up in the sky and waited for Gods to come and save them from natural calamities and dangerous situations. They thought and believed that Gods from above would descend to rescue them from all kinds of evils in the society. It seemed that Gods didn't listen to their prayers and didn't come down to save them from dangers and still people continue to believe in Gods. When Gods didn't come down in chariots to rescue them, they thought Gods were angry and so they performed many ritualistic sacrifices, penance and fasting, yet their Gods wouldn't come to deliver them. Finally people who expected Gods to save them died believing that they would enter into heavens and be with Gods on the right hand side.

This phenomena is still not finished yet. Those who profess their faith in Gods and are the followers of some religions today are still waiting for Gods to descend and deliver them from all kinds of diseases and dangers. Some humans prayed and offered sacrifices so much that they became very religious as a result many people were moved by their godly characteristics and began to take them as Gods from above. Some even called such religious people as sons and daughters of Gods sent from above to deliver the mankind. These people too didn't succeed in delivering people from the evils and died a mortal death. But people were so hungry and thirsty for Gods that they made them alive and believed that their Gods would come again as promised by the scriptures, prophets and sages.

Until now not even a single God has come down from heaven to deliver the mankind from poverty, recession, hyper inflation, deflation, unemployment, sickness, injustice, wars and death. If there were Gods according to the understanding of believers, Gods would have certainly descended to redeem people from bondage and sufferings. Why do people think that Gods are up above the sky and He/She will descend in chariots to save the world?

Gods can never save and deliver people because they are very busy creating the multi-universes. Today you are your own God and saviour so you must save and protect yourself from all kinds of dangers. Don't ever expect that Gods from above will deliver you from lions' dens. It is a wrong perception that has misled people to believe in Gods which no longer exist in a way that majority of humans know and understand.

I am sure, even the governments are not gods who can't deliver us from depression, recession, hyper inflation, deflation and bad economy. The big institutes like Banks, FED, IMF, World Bank, NASA, UN and many other organizations too won't come to your rescue when depression or recession strikes you. The recession has hit people all over the world since 2007 and now 2011 is coming soon. The economic condition will not improve so quickly as people think because there is nobody out there to take into account the ordinary citizens of the world. The governments or banks won't deliver us because they are too not gods but they act like gods here on earth and the ignorant people believe them to be their saviours.

The real and true God is you the individual being. You have everything you need to keep things under control for your future. You possess the talents, skills, expertise and knowledge to deliver yourself from great depression, recession, inflation, deflation and injustice. Believe that you are truly the living messiah and there is no another one. As long as you consider others to be your Gods, then you will not be saved and redeemed. You will be cursed and crushed to death.

Ignorant people have gods up in the sky, but you should never have gods in the form of governments and banks because they haven't succeeded in rescuing people from great inflation that we have today. As you know, four years have passed since the recession has hit the global economy and people are suffering because they have no jobs and no money to take care of themselves. How can you leave your future in others' hands? Be your own saviour and deliver yourself from the evils of modern banking and government systems. The best way to be your own saviour to educate yourself about financial matter. Learn to play with the new rules of money and it can deliver you from all evil.
Alwed Ekka
Guide Coach Mentor

Monday, November 15, 2010

Is Your Life Meaningful?

"Believe that life is worth living and your belief will help create the fact." William James

Daily human experiences at times suggest that our life is useless and meaningless. Thousands upon thousands of people have felt and commented bad about themselves. Life is not meaningless. Your life is not useless. Your life has a purpose, a goal and a mission to accomplish if you realize that you are special and your life is meaningful.

The other day my close friend Ravi shared some nice insights about life. He said that he used to see his life as meaningless. He even thought of committing suicide and getting rid of his life because he didn't find any meaning in life. There was no clear idea what he should do or use his life for. Then he came to a big realization that his life was meaningless because he was doing what he really didn't want to do. His life seemed meaningless to him because he was not doing anything different. In other words, if you find your life to be meaningless, it is only because you are doing meaningless tasks and nothing more than that. Life becomes meaningless if you do what you don't want to do yet you happen to do it. The best thing is to avoid doing what you don't want and do what you do want. This way you can find your life to be meaningful and useful.

Life is meaningful if you do what you want to do. If you do what you want to accomplish, you can be sure that life will be interesting and useful for you. There are many people who find their lives meaningless for reason they fail to do what they are supposed to do. Do you find yourself less interested and useful to contribute something to the society? You must never consider your life meaningless. Walk with your head straight and up so that you can be sure there will be some goodness and happiness.

My best friend realized that he was doing wrong things and that made him to feel life meaningless. He was not focused and disciplined. But once he learned a valuable lesson, he considers his life has a great meaning and worth living. You can be sure to find your life meaningful in this world though your present situation may not prove to be promising and encouraging. Just keep in mind that life seems meaningless when we do meaningless things while life appears to be meaningful when we follow meaningful activities.

This is where the personal passion, niche and interest come to once rescue. You can learn to find meanings in small things no matter what you do corresponds to what you really desire. Do meaningful things and you will see your life to be meaningful and shining.

Alwed Ekka
Guide Coach Mentor

Wednesday, November 10, 2010

What Is Wrong With Humans?

When I think about how the world has turned out to be today and how it will be in the future, one big question really keeps coming to my mind over and over again is this: is there anything wrong with people today? What is wrong with people? Why have we failed to design and create a system that cares for the earth and its creatures? The earth is injured crying for help and asking people to be merciful and kind. Why don't we listen to and do something about it? In my opinion, there is something wrong with us. Let's see how.

The earth is being abused and exploited massively beyond its capacity to sustain life on this earth that within a short span of time we will be facing extinction of all species on this earth. During the industrial revolution, in 17th, 18th and 19th centuries, the industrialists extracted resources from the earth so much in order to make a huge margin of profit that they degraded and destroyed the environment to the brink of non-existence. They didn't bother to show some modesty in their drives to extract the resources and throw the industrial wastes in the nature causing air, water and land pollution. This process is continuing at accelerated speed. It is good to make huge profits but if there is any profit, we are paying the price and the price is very high- human and animal extinction.

The industries, companies and governments of the world are behaving in a strange way with the earth's resources. The governments are supporting the industries and companies to extract resources and finish off everything just to make a big profit. Today governments of the world are not big, they have shrunk as a result they have to obey what the big corporations demand and dictate. How can we the citizens of the world allow the irresponsible people to exploit and abuse the resources so badly that hardly there will be any resources left for our future children? Where will our children go and live with their families if we exploit and use them all now?

The trees are being cut everyday in thousands just to make profits and live a luxurious life at somebody's expenses. The water which belongs to everyone is rationed and bottled in order to tap the potentiality of making huge profits. Oil is extracted from the nature and used for multi-purpose causing a lot of pollution in the air, land and water as a result we are suffering from various diseases which we don't know. We know those diseases only when we get sick and have to pay the medical bills. It is very strange why people have to design this way and follow even in this 21st century?

We have the linear system of extraction, production, distribution, consumption and dumping but this linear system has destroyed our nature and ecology so much that we can see it and feel every day. Why not adopt and design some sustainable, green, zero waste and reliable system to allow life to exist on this earth? It is possible to create and make a system which can cater to all people in the world.

The recent recession has brought a disaster for people. It has killed people, left people jobless, hungry and broke. How can a system that is not supporting people to survive and live be protected and continued even in this century? It has become obsolete and we must never take that as a foundation to draw a future course of existence on earth. We got to be more constructive, sustainable, wise and innovative in using our resources for years to come.

The earth is crying for help because it is suffering. Let's do something and contribute whatever we have to save our planet earth from those industrialists, profit mongers and the governments who protect and promote them by making laws and rules. We must be able to create a world, which no king or queen or president had ever thought of.

The earth is filled with toxins, chemicals, diseases and myopic people who are thinking and acting small and short. They should not be allowed to destroy our earth. We must save our earth from those few humans who are putting all of us into extinction. I think they should be responsible humans to apologize and correct their ways to save the earth for all to live, move and multiply.

If human beings were good and right in their behaviours and actions, they would have protected the earth from the brink of destruction. We should take the step now before it is too late to act and do something. Something is always wrong with people over the years. People have killed, maimed, kidnapped, tortured and destroyed the human civilization and the nature. So obviously it proves that there is something wrong with people. Mahatma Gandhi, wouldn't have approved people destroying the earth at an accelerating speed. Let's stand together and save the earth. Find some solutions for there are solutions to save the earth.

Alwed Ekka
Guide Coach Mentor

Thursday, November 4, 2010

Government's Power Is Shrinking While Private Corporations Increasing!

After the success of Industrial age, the big industry heads no longer wanted the Governments to dictate and make legal laws for the industries to do any kinds of business. The big industries didn't want to comply and regulated with the laws made by the governments so they decided to be agents for law making themselves. The governments are no longer the most powerful organization in the world. They don't have power and authority today that they enjoyed once. The government's power is shrinking while private corporations are increasing. The private corporations control and make the laws for the citizens to comply with.

Think about for a minute, who are invited to board meetings or strategic meetings organized by Governments all over the world? Think also, who are not invited and not included in the discussion forum? Next, take into consideration, who has the final verdict or say? You may think that governments have the power to decide and make laws. It is wrong, the industry heads who are invited to discuss and draw strategic plans, are the ones who have more say and power. The ordinary citizens are not invited to the meeting. The common people know the outcome of meetings through the media channels and you know who owns these media news and channels.

The common people think and still believe that their government is going to save them from recession, inflation and job loss but actually it is not so. The governments all over the world have become puppets in the hands of the few big private organizations. These large organizations are no longer concerned about the welfare of entire humanity. They only mind their own profits and earnings.

The governments all over the world have lost their actual place and they don't know whether to take care of the masses or the few. These government officials have their own families and they want to protect their family members so they are ready to sacrifice the masses for the sake of few of their family members' well-being. It is heartening to know that majority of people are ignorant about the foolishness of the government yet they place their trust in them for protection and solution.

Keeping the environment clean, free from pollution, toxins and other hazardous substances should be their first priority, but the government doesn't form any major laws to disqualify industries that pollute and endanger animals and people's lives. The governments from all over the world come together to discuss about climate change and global warming, but it is only a show and there is nothing deeper there. They don't find any viable alternative ways to solve people's demands though there are some ways.

Today we pay for everything, water, air, oil, goods and the services. The hospitals use gas cylinders for the treatment of the patients and it is charged. We pay for bottled water today because big industries say that the tap water is not fit for drinking. It will not be so long when we will buy oxygen bag and mask for our daily breathing. The pollution rate is very high all over the world that people have diseases like asthma, cancer and other illnesses.

The question arises, if the governments all over the world had power in their hands, they would have certainly found new ways to lead people to live and exist in this 21st century. Why not choose health and wellness over exploiting the earth for resources which cannot sustain all humans for a long time if things continue to accelerate at the present speed, then sure human existence on earth would be a total extinction.

The governments have lost their power by favouring the few over the masses but they go to the masses to beg for votes because they know the few people they profess allegiance to, don't really choose them through ballots. The masses are ignorant and they don't know much and they will never know much because they don't bother about it until one day when things would be too late they will wake up and by then nothing much could be changed and prevented.

Alwed Ekka
Guide Coach Mentor

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Learn To Control Your Emotions!

"A man who is master of himself can end a sorrow as easily as he can invent a pleasure. I don't want to be at the mercy of my emotions. I want to use them, to enjoy them, and to dominate them." Oscar Wilde“

People come under the influence of many kinds of emotions on a daily basis and it is at times very hard to keep them under control. Humans are emotional beings and if they are not matured and educated, they can easily be misled by emotions that don't serve our purpose. It is very important to detach oneself from some negative emotions that control us yet don't serve us well.

Vincent Van Gogh said, "Let's not forget that the little emotions are the great captains of our lives and we obey them without realizing it." Many people are ruled by negative emotions more than the positive emotions of joy, love, peace, health. So why not learn to have those feelings and emotions which you want to express on the daily basis. If you don't do your homework to control and understand your emotions, you can easily lose your control and thus your moods can be influenced negatively.

On a daily basis, you may be encountering many people and different events at odd hours of the day and you will never feel the same all the time. Sometimes, your anger may take hold of you suddenly when others don't agree with your ideas and opinions. You may scream at them and only to feel sorry later for the sudden outburst. There is a way to control your emotion and you can easily respond positively to any events at any point of time.

Steven Covey writes in his book, 'The seven habits of highly effective people' that we should not react to an event negatively rather we should be proactive meaning we should respond positively to any circumstances. In other words, if somebody suddenly cuts in front of you while driving, you don't have to yell or vent your anger, you just need to be cool, calm and happy. Here you have a choice to vent your anger or show a big smile. If you smile at them, that will make a big difference to you and others.

Instead of reacting to criticism, negative remarks and disagreement, you must choose to be proactive. You can choose to be polite, cool and gentle. This way you can control your emotions and lead a happy life always. Carl W. Buechner once said, "They may forget what you said, but they will never forget how you made them feel." This is very important in life because this is what you want to feel and experience in your life.

In order to conclude, I would like to quote here Lakshmi Mittal, a billionaire who said this, "
At the end of the day you have to keep emotions away." Learn to control your emotions that don't serve your purpose and revive those emotions that spur you to positive action. Be proactive and be responsible. Act and don't react to any events abruptly. Take a deep breath and respond politely. Show a sign of maturity.

Alwed Ekka
Guide Coach Mentor


Monday, November 1, 2010

You Can Overcome Your Low Self-Esteem(Part-3 Concluded)

It is said that people have self-concept about themselves. This self-concept determines every thing a person wants to do in life. Self-concept is a bundle of beliefs about oneself and about every part of life and the world. The self-concept here is the master program and is in your subconscious computer.

You are where you and what you are because of what you believe yourself to be on the daily basis. Whether you are rich or poor, fat or thin, healthy or sick, successful or unsuccessful, your beliefs, the self-concept control your life. It is very clear, your outer world is an expression of your inner world. If you want to change, you must work on your self-concept and make a correction there.

You should never allow your poor self-esteem to control your inner mind and if it controls your subconscious computer then you are sure to feel low and have low esteem through out your lifetime. However you can easily come out of this problem if you change your inner beliefs about yourself and be open to have a positive attitude about it.

Self-concept is made up of three parts and number one is Self-Ideal. Self-ideal means the vision you have for life, the picture and images that you hold about yourself to be in the real world. If you form an ideal self and you want to be that you can be because it is internal thing. It seems that people who overcome low-esteem, have very clear self-ideal. While those who are struggling and unsuccessful have unclear ideals in most cases.

The second part is the self-image. It is the way you see yourself, and the way you think about yourself as you live your daily life. It is the inner mirror and shows you what you are. Make an effort to change it deliberately. Think about yourself as the most competent, talented and efficient individual to achieve your goals. If you behave consistently according to the picture that you hold of yourself on the inside you can feel, talk, walk, think and achieve better things in life.

The third part is self-esteem. Your self-esteem is how you feel about yourself. It is the emotional aspect of your personality and it is the key to happiness, success and wealth. It gives energy, enthusiasm, vitality, optimism and power to make you a high performing and high-achieving man or woman.

How valuable and worthwhile you feel about yourself, how much you like and accept yourself as a good person, talented person will determine your outside success. Remember you got to believe yourself, accept yourself, love yourself, see yourself as a victor and value yourself to be, do, have and enjoy life.

Alwed Ekka
Guide Coach Mentor

Wednesday, October 27, 2010

How Do You Feel About Money?

"Successful people make money. It's not that people who make money become successful, but that successful people attract money. They bring success to what they do." Dr. Wayne Dyer

First and foremost, I want to ask, "How do you feel about money? What do you think about money? Why do you think about money? When do you think about money? Many people think, talk and feel about money differently and most of the time. It makes a very important impression in minds of people who think, talk and feel about money. The question arises what do they think, talk and feel about money?

Successful men and women seem to love money and like money. They don't hate money. They like money. They see the good things that can be accomplished with the help of money. Money becomes a very important commodity for them. But most people think, talk and feel about money negatively. They have negative attitude towards money and as a result they repel it. Successful people don't chase money and they don't take their needs to the marketplace instead they attract money by following their life purpose and mission. They take their skills and talents to the marketplace and attract money.

Warren Buffet, the investment genius doesn't run after money instead his expertise and experiences go in search of better investment. Similarly, others too follow the same style of making money. They refine their skills, polish their professionalism and invest in their continuous learning.

Money is attracted to those who feel good about it. Money flows to people who think good about and talk good about it. Above all they feel good and great about having too much money. They see there is no any inherent evil in possessing money. In India people worship wealth or money because it represents Goddesses. In other words, they perceive money as something good and not evil as a matter of fact they attract what they consider to be good.

If there is poverty in the world, it is there because majority of people don't feel good about money. They think money is evil and a loathsome subject. Since they think negatively about money and feel bad about money, they repel possessing or attracting money. There is nothing wrong in attracting money, if it comes from genuine sources.

Many think money is evil because they see money coming from wrong sources and as a result they tend to think, talk and feel money as bad and evil. Money is not bad. It is good and affirmative. Money is bad when it is acquired through evil sources. Here the action is wrong and bad. However people should never consider money as evil.

If you want to attract money, abundance and prosperity in your life, you must think, talk and feel positively about money. There is something nice about it and it has the power to change one's life. Of course people feel bad about money because they were given misleading information from elders who didn't know much about money. They were well aware of the evil sources from where the money came in hand.

How do you feel about money when you spend it? What do you say to yourself when you give money to others? What do you think of accumulating money through good channels? Remember how you feel is very important in attracting money in your life and what you feel when you spend or buy something.

Feel good as much as you can about money. Love money as dearly as you can. Think about it as positive as you can and talk about its inherent qualities and power to change millions and billions of people on earth. Feel good, think good, talk good and love money to attract it in your life.

Alwed Ekka
Guide Coach Mentor

Sunday, October 24, 2010

The Lack Of Money Is The Root Of All Evils Today!

"Money is the root of all evils" is an old adage and many people believe this to be true. In my opinion, money is not evil, it is only a tool to be used for living on this earth. What is evil then? The lack of money is the root of all evils today. Having money doesn't really create as many problems as we can think of. It is the lack of money that creates a lot of problems in the society, community, country and the world. The scarcity of money, the fiat money has caused so much damaged to the mankind that we can't imagine in our lifetime.

Lack of Money Kills Sick Patients.

Today there are so many patients in the hospitals all over the world suffering from all kinds of rare diseases and they don't have enough money to pay for the treatment. Many diseases could have been treated and healed by proper medication, but they lacked money and they couldn't opt for the best treatment. Many people have lost their dear and near ones just because of lack of money. They didn't have much money to pay for the expenses. Even if they are insured, the companies wouldn't pay for the full expenses and they in turn get penalized. Lack of money is killing millions of people all over the world and nobody really notices this. The government's promise to provide better health care facility and package is only a hidden agenda to serve higher clients. Lack of money is the root of all evils if you think from this perspective. Lack of money takes away precious life and doesn't guarantee anything. The best thing you can do is to become rich legally and in a good way so that you could afford a good treatment in the best hospitals.

Lack Of Money Keeps People Hungry.

Another evil that lack of money does to the society and country is that it keeps people hungry. Because of not enough money, many people in the third world countries are dying daily out of hungry. They are dying not because the food grains are not available, the foods are available bountifully. The people are dying because they lack enough money to afford them. These people have no money to buy the food and eat. So it is not the resources that are scarce or insufficient, resources are enough for all humanity in ages to come. Only resource that is lacking is the money. The world is ruled by a commodity called currency, it is fiat approved by the governments of the world and this paper money is not enough for these people. So money is not bad, but lack of money is really bad and evil because lack of money is killing millions of people all over the world.

Lack Of Money Makes People Bad and Evil.

When people have enough and more than enough money, they don't tend to do bad things. Bill Gates has more than he needs for his life time. Is he doing anything bad? Is he killing people because he has a lot of money? Is he creating diseases so that many people would die? No, he is not doing anything of these. He has more than enough and he is doing something extraordinary things through his foundation. He is helping the AIDS and HIV patients all over the world. That means money doesn't necessarily create evils. It is the lack of money that creates evil in the society, family and country. There are so many robbers, gangs of killers etc because they don't have enough money and they end up embracing evil paths to earn money. So it is clear that lack of money indeed creates evil in the society and cummunity.

Lack Of Money Creates War Between Nations.

Countries who are rich and powerful actually should not be threatening the third world countries because they seem to have everything. But why do they control and wage war against smaller nations? There is a reason. These countries may be powerful and rich but they don't have everything they need. They lack something and only way to get is to snatch from others by declaring wars. The history is full of this examples. When David in the Bible didn't have as beautiful wife as his soldier, he snatched soldier's wife and got killed the soldier. When a nation doesn't have oil, gold, drugs and other resources, the best thing is to have them by attacking other nations. Lack of money indeed creates war between nations. It is not the other way. It is a pure psychological reason.

Lack of Money Denies Enjoyment and Vacation.

People who have enough money, they can afford best entertainment, enjoyment and vacation. They travel to far away countries and visit the most beautiful places in the world, eat the best and delicious foods, stay in the luxurious suites, party at expensive places around the world, drive luxurious and expensive cars and so on. But people who lack money, they can't afford these things. So you can examine how can you get happiness, entertainment and vacation? What gives you the happiness and peace? Money or lack of money? Lack of Money has denied many people the happiness, dreams, goals, and vacation that people wanted to have once in their life time. So please don't ever say that money is the root of all evils, it is the lack of money that is the root of all evils.

Lack Of Money Leaves People Uneducated and Illiterate.

Who can afford the best universities in the world? People who have money to pay for their universities can only go to the premier universities. So it obvious that money doesn't do bad things to the people. It is the lack of money that keeps people uneducated and illiterate. Lack of money leaves people ignorant and jobless. If people can attend the best universities, they can easily find jobs because the companies who hire employees, choose to recruit the best candidates from the best universities. So lack of money is indeed the root of all evils even in the education fields. So try to amass as much wealth as you can so that you can be happy, peaceful and have a fabulous lifestyle.

Lack Of Money Makes People Homeless.

Due to recent recession, how many people have lost their dream homes. We can't think of them losing their own house which they wanted to stay in for lifetime. The lack of money snatched and took away from these people and kept them homeless. They have no shelter to stay and no money to feed on or take care of their families. How many foreclosures have taken place during this recession, we have no clear ideas and how many people are affected by this. It is the lack of money that has caused this recession, hyper inflation and collapse of modern monetary systems. Look around you in your neighbourhood and you will notice who have lost their homes. There are many homeless people today.

The lack of money is the root of all evils in the society, family, country and the world. So don't ever believe those who say money as bad and evil. Money is a commodity today and without money you can't make any transaction. May be in the olden days, people thought differently but today you have a choice to think differently too. Decide to become rich so that you can afford all good things of life and there will be less evils in the society. Money is not creating evils, it is the lack of money that is creating evils in the world. The solution to this problem is having more money so that you can afford a good lifestyle.

Alwed Ekka
Guide Coach Mentor

Thursday, October 21, 2010

Procrastination Is An Insane Disease!

"Procrastination is one of the most common and deadliest of diseases and its toll on success and happiness is heavy." Wayne Gretzky

Procrastination is deadly. It kills people's dreams. It doesn't allow the dreams to be realized. Majority of people are victims of procrastination so much that their chance of accomplishing something in life has been stunted. Make an observation around the place and you will notice how people are putting off things easily without much consideration. It pays a lot to put off things for another day.

Procrastination is indeed a disease and it is depriving people the lifestyle they deserve. People procrastinate things because they don't know the value of time and they don't know how to divide their time. People must seize and enjoy every bit of their activity that has to be done at a particular time. No idleness, no laziness, no procrastination must creep in and you must never put off till tomorrow what you can do today. There are many people who are the victims of idleness and procrastination.

Almost everybody was affected by this disease of procrastination some time or the other. So everyone knows what pain it gives to people when they put off things for another day. I used to be a victim of this disease. I would put off things for another day, week, month or year and still I couldn't start off and finish things. It was bad and I hated it. The procrastination was killing my dreams and assassinating all the opportunities that were coming on my way. I decided to take action and heal myself from procrastinating. When I took action and began to finish the things on the same day, a new feeling of confidence grew within me and I found it was a great feeling. I loved it and then on nothing has stopped me ever.

I would truly recommend people to stop procrastination because you won't get anything by putting off. The precious time is not waiting for you and your age is not remaining the same. You should never allow this disease to influence and take control of you. At least start something which you like to do and do it everyday, may be you can paint, or sketch something or train your voice. Once there is momentum, you will be led to do the activity daily because it would become a habit for you.

Many dreams and goals have been killed and buried by procrastination. Procrastination is contagious and it can affect anybody who is not strong and focused. It makes easy things hard and hard things still harder. But if you decide to do something regularly, you can make hard things easy to do joyfully.

If you don't value and consider yourself and time important, you will always tend to procrastinate things.
"Until you value yourself, you will not value your time.
Until you value your time, you will not do anything with it" ~ M. Scott Peck So it is important that you value yourself and time.

You may delay things but the fact is time won't wait for you. The best way to get something done is to begin and you must continue after you begin. For majority, doing nothing is a habit and they won't change because they are used to it. But it takes courage and conviction to break the habit of procrastination.

Procrastination sabotages your life and dreams. So better watch carefully and do it right the things which you want to do. I am sure you can heal yourself from this disease. You can overcome easily, if you do your work daily. Of course, procrastination is a grave where your dreams can be buried but you should never allow it. Do the things today and complete rather than putting off.

Alwed Ekka
Guide Coach Mentor

Sunday, October 17, 2010

You Are Infinite Potential!

"Everyone has inside of him a piece of good news. The good news is that you don't know how great you can be! How much you can love! What you can accomplish! And what your potential is!" Anne Frank

As little children we possessed everything because we were born potential and resourceful. We didn't lack anything for our natural growth and development. If you don't believe, observe the little kids how smart and intelligent they are. You won't believe how fast they move, run and think. The children are born with high degree of potentiality.

Les Brown says, "Just because Fate doesn't deal you the right cards, it doesn't mean you should give up. It just means you have to play the cards you get to their maximum potential." Yes, you may have already experienced many bad fortunes but no way your potential to accomplish any goals that you desire will ever escape you. You will achieve it sooner than you expect it. There is infinite potential hidden within you since your birth and nobody has the power to steal it away however others can easily divert your interests and burning desires. You got to be watchful about it.

But how can you unlock your potential? There must be some ways to unlock it. Winston Churchill provided us a way to unleash our potential when he said, "Continuous effort - not strength or intelligence - is the key to unlocking our potential." If you are committed to continuous efforts you can easily unlock the infinite potential that you have within you. Believe, you have infinite potential and capabilities.

Bo Bennet once said, "Every day, people settle for less than they deserve. They are only partially living or at best living a partial life. Every human being has the potential for greatness." Many philosophers, wise scholars, successful men and women have been chanting the same thing through out the ages that men do possess infinite potential. According to recent experts, we don't even employ 10% of our brain capacity instead we use may be 2-3% at the most but some wise scholars and scientists do use 10-12% of our brain capacity.

The ice-berg shows only the tip of it and hides the greatest part. The same way we use only a fraction of our brain capacity and the large part of our potential remains unused and untapped. There is infinite potential within us but we hardly realize and take action to explore deeper. We easily give up when things don't go well with things and forget to capitalize on the greater part of our brain capacity.

Herbert Beerbohm Tree put it this way, "Every man is a potential genius until he does something." Is there any doubt that an individual doesn't possess infinite potential? Not at all, there is no such thing as limited potential. The Universe or God has bestowed us infinite potential to last as long as we want them.

I would like to conclude this with a great quote by Confucius, "The will to win, the desire to succeed, the urge to reach your full potential... these are the keys that will unlock the door to personal excellence." Believe, you have the infinite potential to become what you want and enjoy what you desire. Remember you are more than what you are displaying at present.

Alwed Ekka
Guide Coach Mentor

Saturday, October 16, 2010

Move Out Of Unhealthy Association Quickly!

Associate with people who are going somewhere, becoming somebody, empowering and encouraging you. Avoid your association with people who are making you a victim and using you for their personal benefits. We must time with people who align with our value systems, friendship, attitudes and understanding. In my opinion, it is important for people to associate and connect with all but at a deeper level, they must limit their association with few people who have some substance.

Many college going youngsters both boys and girls are victims of drugs, cigarettes and alcohol today. They have cultivated the habit of smoking and using drugs for various reasons. They don't know what future consequences they will face if they continue to smoke or use drugs. It is fun and fashionable to show off but there is a dark side too.

People Smoke to release their stress.
When I see young boys and girls smoking, out of curiosity, I ask them why they smoke them. They quickly reply saying that they smoke only to relieve themselves from stress. They don't have knowledge, experience and know-how to handle their stress and they blindly fall into the habit of smoking. They start with one cigarette, and then it is no longer one cigarette but thousands of cigarettes they end up smoking in a year. The smoking habits get reinforced when their peers also associate with them all the while. As long as they associate with each other, there is no hope of quitting. If people don't move out of that unhealthy environment, they will stay in that hell forever till they die.

My wife's uncle acquired the habit of smoking and drinking alcohol by associating with his friends who used to engage in such unhealthy habits. It started with one cigarette and one glass of beer but it multiplied over the years and it became finally an addiction where it was hard to quit. My wife's uncle enjoyed drinking and smoking heavily neglecting his wife and children's welfare. Then a day came, when his drinking and smoking could no longer sustain his life. He had jaundice and it didn't leave him for months. He had to be hospitalized and treated for his sickness but he couldn't recover from jaundice. He was admitted in the ICCU because he had so much complication but he couldn't survive for a week. He suffered so much and died alone. His unfulfilled dreams and wishes died too. His talents and skills were buried with him. He didn't leave behind any fortune or legacy for his family.

The youngsters don't know what dire consequences they will face in life if they continue their bad habits or continue to associate with unhealthy groups. If people associate with writers, they tend to become writers; if they associate with entrepreneurs they will most likely become entrepreneurs; if they associate with smokers, alcoholics and drug addicts, they will become like them. We become what we do with our precious time and energy. If you spend your time and energy with people who want to become successful, happy, healthy and rich, you will become like them. On the other hand, if you spend your time and energy with people who are engaged in unhealthy habits and practices, you will become like them.

Therefore it is important to make a wise choice when you are growing up. I made a choice not to smoke and use drugs when I was young and that choice has contributed so much for my growth and achievement. I am glad I made that choice because it makes me happy. I am glad I didn't conform to the peer pressure. People can make a choice but they easily give in to the temptation because they lack discipline, philosophy and guidance. So make a decision to move out of unhealthy association quickly so that you don't get dragged into the hell of bad habits and misfortune.

Alwed Ekka
Guide Coach Mentor

Monday, October 11, 2010

Fall In Love With Life!

Just like people fall in love with another person by adoring everything about them you can fall in love with your life to enjoy the best of everything. You must ask yourself do you really love your life? Are you in love with your life? If you have fallen in love with your life, you will be positive, optimistic, confident, successful, healthy and wealthy. Loving your life is very important today because it shows how accountable and truthful you are with yourself.

If you love your life, you can become healthy. Millions of people all over the world are struggling to keep themselves healthy physically. The reason is obvious, they don't love their lives. They consider life to be the most precious gift I personally think people neglect to take care of themselves simply because they are unable to love and accept as they are. I think these people must love their lives.

There are majority of people finding hard to earn enough money to run their families. I think it is because they don't love their lives. If you love your life, you will find ways to support your family. There won't be a struggle rather there will be abundance.

When you love your life, the limitation, weakness, anger, fear, jealousy etc will disappear and you will begin to experience strength, happiness, confidence and courage because you love your life. When you fall in love with your life, you will manifest all kinds of good things in your life.

Those who have made big and have reached to the top in the corporate ladder, are the real examples of people who have fallen in love with their lives. I mean here the positive impact that they have on people.

It is good to examine whether you have fallen in love with life or not. If you are in love with life then you can come to know by the results you get in life. So fall in love with life so that you can unleash the power within you and can get unlimited results.

It is only one life so you must make the best use of it. There is tremendous power and talents within you that you can achieve them if you consider your life as important and valuable. What makes your life beautiful, happy and prosperous? Do them as often as you can.

Alwed Ekka
Guide Coach Mentor

Friday, October 8, 2010

Your World Will Change When You Change!

"You must be the change you wish to see in the world." Mohandas Gandhi

Your world, your life, your future, your financial well being, your health will improve when you truly decide to change and if you don't desire to change the things will remain static and unmoved for ever. The moment of decision to change shapes your future and lifestyle forever. The human world at large is changing rapidly but is your individual world , life, finance, health and happiness changing for better?

If you are through change, you can have a new life yourself and if you are not through change, then there is nothing much you can expect to see. If you are looking for health, wealth, happiness and wisdom, you must often change constantly so that you can change your world and bring abundance for yourself.

For instance, if your over spending habit is changed, your chance of having a financial abundance will increase and a new sense of prosperity will grow where you can get all that you want. People don't make a plan or don't set goals for their future, and if they change that old habit their life and world could be transformed too.

If you have a goal, a dream and a vision, you must change your attitude, goals, character and lifestyle otherwise there will not be any good opportunities coming your way. However those who don't change are afraid to change. It is a sad phenomena.

But you should be wise enough to change for growth, success, prosperity, health and happiness. Because all change is not growth and all movement is not forward. You can be still at one place and move but you won't be going anywhere just like walking on a trade mill though you may change the speed but you don't reach any place physically. So change for the accomplishment of your dreams and goals. Change for wealth, health and friendship that you want to enjoy in your world.

There are very few percentage of people all over the world who have changed themselves and they have succeeded in changing their world, their lives, their health, their lifestyle and their existence. Look around you who have changed themselves and as a result their world has become a thing of admiration and success. People want to be like them and wish to achieve what they have accomplished for example the entrepreneurs, millionaires and billionaires.

If you want to be healthy and fit, you must change your laziness and eating habits or you can join the fitness center to work out your abs etc. You must change your habit of procrastination, you must change your negative attitude, you must change your beliefs and refine your philosophy which is keeping you away from reaping good rewards.

People do have some resistance to change themselves but you must overcome that resistance. You must never let it control you and hold you back. You should be the man/woman who you want to be so that your world and future can be unique and lovely.

Keep in mind that if you change for better, your world will be thousand times better; if you change for success and wealth, your world will be successful, wealthy and abundant; if you change for good health, you will enjoy health through out your life and if you change for loving relationship, you will have a pleasant and romantic relationship. It all comes down to your ability to change and transform your world and then the whole world.

"Things do not change; we change." Henry David Thoreau

Alwed Ekka
Guide Coach Mentor

Thursday, October 7, 2010

Learn Some Invaluable Lessons From The Mistakes And Failures!

You can learn some valuable lessons from your own mistakes and the mistakes of others. If you want to live, you must pick up some lessons from the failures so that you can move ahead and avoid making the same mistakes again and again. You must never repeat the same errors more often because if you do that you will lose confidence and your self-esteem will be low. Mistakes and failures are great blessings in disguise for those who recognize its instructive power.

Many people don't want to commit any kind of mistakes in life because they are afraid of failures. Yes, mistakes and failures do bring pain and discomfort but mistakes and failures are necessary if you want to thrive in prosperity and happiness. Without mistakes you can never be certain what is right way to do things. It is important because you have the chance to learn some valuable lessons to move forward and avoid future falls. And in order to survive and succeed you have to learn from your mistakes and the mistakes of others.

My son Myron is two years old and I watched him fall many times when he attempted to walk. When he stood first time, he couldn't move his leg, he stood still and slipped down suddenly but he rose up again to gain the momentum. He kept on this process many times because it seemed fun for him. He succeeded finally in moving his one leg and then the other leg though he wasn't steady at first. When he learned to move his both legs, he still fell down. After required amount of falls, he was empowered enough to walk and what a pleasant sight it was to look at him smiling and laughing. When he learned the walking skills, he wanted to move on to the next skill. After walking, he tried to run but when he moved his leg quickly he couldn't run, he fell down because he didn't have a balance but soon he qualified for running.

The falls, mistakes and failures are not bad, they are important steps to move forward because we don't have to stay stuck at one place. Thomas Edison, Wright Brothers, Henry Ford, Abraham Lincoln, Mahatma Gandhi, Nelson Mandela and many great souls became successful because they had many falls and failures. The most important thing is they learned valuable lessons and improved upon the mistake to move forward to grow and thrive. Mistakes are necessary, if you want to achieve a big result, a big goal.

When I attended a driving school, my instructor didn't expect me to drive the car like a professional but a beginner. I didn't learn to drive the car without making mistakes. I learned to drive because I made a lot of mistakes but each time I made mistakes, I learned from the mistakes more than driving correctly. Mistakes teach us more than doing the right thing. Business is same like learning to hold the steering wheel. There is bound to be errors and failures but lessons must not be bypassed.

The society, the neighbours, friends and family look upon people who make mistakes as failures and good for nothing. People see them as if a big crime is made. The schools and colleges punish the students when they make mistakes. They expect all the time the correct answers. These people forget the reality that there is no right or wrong answer at first attempt. Who said that at first attempt, people will get things right, no? The baby never gets right the first time when she wants to walk and run. It is only after a series of steps that a child learns to walk and run. Thomas Edison didn't invent the light bulb with a single attempt or Mahatma Gandhi didn't earn freedom for his country with one single effort and even NASA couldn't send astronauts to the space without big mistakes and failures. Things require time and energy to become a success or real. We can't impose unexpected demands and success without knowing the law of nature.

Think about any millionaires and billionaires you know, they didn't become successful overnight with a first attempt. They made many mistakes, failed many times but they didn't give up because they corrected and learned lessons from those mistakes. If the society or the world looks down upon you when you commit a mistake, don't bother about them. They don't know you and they can't live a life for you. It is normal to make mistakes and it is okay to fail in any endeavor. It is not a big deal. But remember, you must never miss the lesson from those errors of judgement.

Learn the lessons from your own mistakes and the mistakes of others as much as you can so that you will be able to attract the success and lifestyle that you desire to have in your life. There is a beauty, value and honor in pursuing your dreams in spite of your failures and mistakes.

What do I mean by failures and mistakes? When you fail to reach your dreams and targets, when you make mistakes while stitching a pair of pants then it is not a big crime that the society should punish you. But when people kill somebody or kidnap some people, these are serious crimes and are subjected to legal punishment and there is a course correction. But people can learn some valuable lessons from that too.

My purpose here is how and why people should learn valuable lessons from any kinds of errors or mistakes done knowingly or unknowingly. If you learn those valuable lessons you can make your life an extraordinary one. Mistakes are stop signs and they are blessings too. Recognize the value of mistakes and failures.

Alwed Ekka
Guide Coach Mentor

Wednesday, October 6, 2010

We Are Our Worst Enemies To Deny The Good Things Of Life!

Success, Financial abundance, Health, Happiness and love are the results of Inner Games. What goes on inside you determines your external success, health and happiness on the outside. If you are not relaxed and harmonious within, you can't expect to get positive results. I believe that we are our own enemies because we ignore the things that we should suppose to do.

For instance, if you complain everyday in the morning about how sick or how cold you are, it shows that you don't control your body. If you have a control over yourself, then you can have a control over the physical sickness too. If you have a cold in the morning, it is because of your own creation. If you are suffering from cold, it is the result of your inner discord. There are no correct thoughts and feelings within. If you feel better and all right within, then naturally you will reflect a better health on the outside. What is within and what is going on inside, shows up on the outside. When you fall sick, don't rush to the doctor to see what is wrong with your body instead you rush to your room where you can sit erect in silence with closed eyes to ponder about it. I am sure once you have reached the stage of consciousness, you will begin to believe that you are the cause of your sickness and the effects are your own making. You can change this if you want it.

People run short of money every month just to survive. They work 9 to 5 and some even do part-time jobs. There is nothing much outside in the absence of your inner mind. I mean that if you don't get things first in your inner self, the outer self will have nothing much to show. It is obvious but very subtle that is why many people miss the opportunity to enjoy abundance. Through the imaging laws of prosperity, one can accumulate all that an individual wants.

Majority of people go to the financial planners to draw their financial portfolios. I do think they need to consult the experts but they must first consult their inner self. They must first create within their internal self a complete picture of financial abundance and then should seek experts who know more and provide them with accurate information.

Ask around people who are successful, rich and famous how they operate their inner mind. We don't know what goes on in their internal selves but we can be sure that there is something that they do want in life. The results and rewards that they get on the outside proves and confirms the reality that they do desire them. Your results will improve if you improve your inner self and inner thoughts. Become a better person internally, achieve a goal that you want to have internally first and similarly create other things that you want first within the confinement of your mind.

People who are struggling financially don't create things within their inner selves, even if they create they don't believe and affirm them to be definite and real. This way we become our own enemies to deny the good things of life. We don't cooperate with the law of the universe and we don't get much rewards too. We become enemies when we shift our focus and attention on negative energies such as boredom, irritation, worry, criticism, hate, envy, guilt and fear. The moment we change our outlook and mindset, they control us and direct our life accordingly.

The solution is very simple. We must value our inner strength more than the external results, conditions and circumstances. The external environment, circumstances and reality don't have much effect on us until we give in to them. So it is better that we focus our attention on empowering energies- love, gratitude, joy, enthusiasm, passion, hope, faith and excitement.

If we relax and enjoy the harmony, then we can surely win over ourselves. There can be peaceful, successful, abundant, healthy and happy feelings around us if we operate from within. Achieve all that you want first within then without. Don't take this for granted. It is the way the universe operates. If you adhere to the inner game of life, you can experience financial success, health, happiness and love. A new world of possibility will unfold for you when you impress your inner mind first with the goals and images that you want to accomplish. Learn to play the inner game first so that outer game will be played harmoniously and successfully with ease and comfort.

Alwed Ekka
Guide Coach Mentor

Tuesday, October 5, 2010

Are You Your Own Mind Programmer?

Is Your Mind Infected With Negative Viruses?
Our human mind can be likened to a computer, which gets programmed soon after we are manufactured by our parents. We receive and accumulate all the data and information that we are fed with. When we are brand new mind, we accept all kinds of programming languages and store in our hardware. We don't reject the commands and programs. We become what and how we are programmed.

The programs that we received as kids affect us so much in adulthood that it has the power to keep us away from achieving money, success and happiness. These programs can be called memes. Meme refers to any idea, value, behaviour which are prevalent in a culture and passed from one person to another verbally or repeated action. Meme is non-genetic in nature and it is the cultural counterpart of genes. A vast majority of population is infected with memes.

It is hard to believe that when you were six or eight years old, the things that your parents, teachers and others commented about money, success, wealth, life, marriage, friendship etc. could prevent you today from having and enjoying them. The TV show or movie that you watched as kids and the books that you read could prevent you from getting things you love to have. Today people are exposed to negative memes so much that by the time they are adults they are already programmed and infected with nasty mind viruses.

Memes are real, dangerous and misleading. They are opinions, views and thoughts of somebody. They may not be good for you. But you have been infected with those memes that you no longer see yourself as capable. The countries around the world spend billions of dollars to protect us from enemies but there are cultural memes which are so subtle that hardly anybody can escape from being infected. Our minds get programmed by memes and as a result the mind is infected and produces wrong results in life.

Are you your own mind programmer? Are you aware of the insidious subliminal and subconscious programming you are getting everyday without your consciousness? For instance, your family is in the car and happen to pass through the exclusive rich shopping malls. You want to visit the mall and buy something but instantly your parents say, "we can't afford to buy there anything because we don't have money." You may not realize how that statement will infect your mind with lack mentality and what it will do to you for the rest of your life. That program will any how get installed in your mind and will become the main operating system through out your life.

What seems very scary is that 90% of programming that you receive on a day to day basis is the negative programming of lack, fear, limitation, sickness, betrayal and unfaithfulness. These programmings may self-sabotage your chances of enjoying success, health and happiness. The more you are exposed to these memes, the more your programming gets reinforced.

The media, the government, religious institutes, religions and the people you spend your most time with will infect you and harm you more than anybody in the world. Out of 6 billion people in the world, nearly 1 billion people are rich and having an abundant life but the sad part is that 5 billion people fall under the category of poor or middle class. If they don't work for the government, institutes or others they won't be fed and taken care of. So you can imagine, how a large percentage of people in the world are easily programmed, controlled, ruled and managed for the sake of vested interests.

You must decide now and be cautious how you can avoid being programmed and infected by others. If there are more wise and educated people in the world, then we won't need the government systems to run the country. Look into yourself and examine whether you are infected by some memes or genes. You have to be extra vigilant about this. Your mind and mind-set are the most important assets and resources, which you must protect them at all costs.

Alwed Ekka
Guide Coach Mentor

Monday, October 4, 2010

Believe Everyday is an Opportunity for a New Life!

Human life on earth is beautiful, admirable and precious. We have every opportunity to become what we desire with all our heart, mind and soul. We have every opportunity to live a happy life, a rich life, a healthy life and a loving life. Everyday we rise to a new opportunity to shape our life what we truly want. This everyday opportunity we must never miss it rather use it to make our life beautiful.

How everyday is an opportunity? We live our lives one day at a time. We don't finish our lifespan in one day. There are 365 days in a year and each day is unique if we consider it as important for us. Therefore, we have 365 opportunities for a new life. If you missed yesterday to create a new life, you have another day today and this way you can never lose the opportunity to design your new life everyday.

You must imagine yourself to make the best use of your time and opportunity. You must think clearly and positively that there is indeed new opportunities for new life and you can have it. Feel with your heart that you can take the advantage of your opportunity.

This way you can never be the same old person. You have every opportunity to be new and lead a new life. Though your past may not be exciting but you haven't missed much because you have another day to start off. People usually lose hope when things go wrong and give up their desires to create a new life when an opportunity comes knocking the door. They view each day with negative attitude and imagination. They must stop it.

New life is created by imagination. Imagination is power. You must imagine that you can achieve all that you want in your life, all that you want to be and all that you love to happen in your life. The new things will come to you when you create them through imagination. After creating you must feel that your desires will come true.

View each day positively and consider it as an opportunity to walk and live a new life. How you view each day determines you whether you will be able to create a new life. I am sure, your positive thoughts and affirmations will work if you really put your efforts to see things with optimistic attitude rather than pessimistic mindset.

Whether you think today is an opportunity for you to live a new life or not, depends upon you and no one can really think that for you because you have to do your thinking, imagination and feeling yourself.

Finally, I want to suggest that you must imagine, you must think, you must feel, you must believe and you must realize that everyday is indeed an opportunity to begin a new life and this new life comes when we take the full responsibility. The year 2010 is coming to an end, 275 days have been passed and only 90 days are remaining. But these 90 days are opportunities for you to live a new life. It is possible to create some thing new for yourself.

Alwed Ekka
Guide Coach Mentor

Sunday, October 3, 2010

To become what you want the powers are inside you!

"There are powers inside of you, which, if you could discover and use, would make of you everything you ever dreamed or imagined you could become." Orison Swett Marden

It is within a reach of mankind to become who they want to be. It is possible for people to stretch if they want to do so and they can shrink if they don’t want. A girl can give birth to a baby and a boy can father a baby. A scientist can devote his life to invent a light bulb or machines to fly.


In India, the Late Dhirubhai Ambani, the founder of Reliance Industries is an extraordinary example for people to emulate. From working at Petrol Pump at Aden he grew up to be one of the world’s richest man owning several businesses and undertaking many social initiatives.


Similarly there are other great souls living and dead who have become what they wanted to be by using their inner power. Michelangelo became a great sculptor because it was there in him the qualities, which he developed by trying on many things.


People who become a great success financially or socially, they recognize their inner power and believe in them constantly. They take action. They employ their energy, time and efforts wisely.


If you are not convinced yet, here is another quote. If you think over it you will surely begin to believe in yourself. This is my favourite quote.


“Deep within man dwell those slumbering powers; powers that would astonish him, that he never dreamed of possessing; forces that would revolutionize his life if aroused and put into action.” Orison Swett Marden


People who believed those slumbering powers, the forces have made themselves unbelievably powerful, successful, rich, millionaires and billionaires.


The founders of Googles, Yahoo and Infosys did believe in this inner power which guided them to be where they are today, what they have become.

Alwed Ekka

Guide Coach Mentor