"The most influential person who will talk to you all day is you, so you should be very careful about what you say to you!" Zig Ziglar
An individual is a community, a society, a family. What happens to a community or society happens to an individual. Though an individual is one being walking or standing alone, his minds, thoughts, and hearts are with the community or society. What bad happens in community, family or society, an individual carries with him wherever he goes. If somebody from his family, circle of friends, or society remarked something bad about him, he nurtures them by thinking and talking to himself negatively. That way an individual is never alone, he is a society or a nation.
The negative remarks and conversation corrupt and influence your mind so much that you can't get rid of them later. You will become the sum total of those negative influences and you know there is nothing much you can gain or learn in life. The negative talks and criticism really affect us and if you are not strong in mind, you will be the victim of such influences.
People who succeed they make sure that they build a strong wall to protect themselves from negative talks. They create a habit to have always positive self-talks. They say to themselves they can do or achieve their dreams. They highly regard their intelligence and skills. They proactively convey empowering message to their subconscious mind and as a result they reap positive results.
The successful people recognize the power of self-talks or auto-suggestions. They speak all the time what they can and how they can do things. They talk in terms of doing and possibilities. It is said that words do become flesh. The words do come true. You must not be careless in speaking out any words. You must speak those words, which you want them to become a reality in your life.
Be watchful what you utter and say to yourself in the silence of your mind. It is more powerful than a sharp sword. Words damage us more than the physical hurts. Choose to say that which you want and expect to happen for you. It is better to learn some powerful affirmations and repeat them as much as you can.
Alwed Ekka
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