Being in a relationship with your partner, wife, husband, children, parents, friends, neighbours and citizens from other countries requires a constant innovation and creation. It demands one to be creative and innovative if you desire strongly to make the best of your association. It is good to teach oneself how to innovate the existing relationship and friendship with people who we connect.
The modern civilization has moved to a new phase of human evolutionary process in terms of social connection. We are no longer bound by the traditional teachings, beliefs and philosophies about relationship. Many people denounce having one partner in their life time and seek a separation from a wife or husband if any obstacles arise. They want to be free and independent as they don't want to be intense in their relationship because of some differences in values and beliefs that arise. It is a new trend that has caught the world red handed and many people feel that they should explore this independence and new development.
I am not against the independence and freedom or nice feeling that comes while seeking separation from one's spouse or a partner. There are benefits involved in it but it causes a lot of pain and stress to go through. I have read and seen people who have walked away from their partners or wife and husband but it is a cumbersome process. I am not here to discuss about the separation process or the separation. I want to emphasize how people can be creative and innovative in order to maintain their existing relationship.
People walk away from their existing relationship for good reasons and bad reasons but there are enough reasons. In my opinion, married couples should try to innovate ways to continue their existing relationship and make the best of it. The last option shouldn't be the separation but the innovation and discovery.
The trees shed their old leaves and wear new and fresh leaves every year and you can see how beautiful they look. The trees are the same, but they bring some newness to themselves and that makes them look beautiful and attractive. This creative nature enables the tree to maintain its existence for a long time. I wonder why can't married men and women do some kind of innovation in their relationship every year or every time to sharpen their romance and love?
It is possible to innovate and create new areas of interests and hobbies. If couples can sit together and work on their old habits and beliefs they can easily change and transform their lifestyle for better. I think people must not consider separation as quickly as their thoughts. They should explore as many options as they can to solve their differences.
Live your life to the full with your existing partner by innovating ways to sparkle your relationship and every bit of romance. Add some creativity and patience to look into the other person and share a good life.
Alwed Ekka
Guide Coach Mentor
