Monday, August 23, 2010

Speak blessings and not curses

Children are born intelligent, talented, rich, healthy and skilful to live a wonderful life on this earth. They have purpose, goals, dreams, visions and reasons to lead a normal life. They don't lack anything. They possess everything that requires to be a success in life. They come with a complete package and they are all full.

The parents must speak to their respective kids the blessings that they want to see happen in their children. The words that they speak has power and if they bless their children with goodness, happiness, wealth, health and a unique lifestyle, the children will become like the blessings. If the parents don't speak blessings to their kids, others will speak and condition them and it won't be any blessings. It will be only curses.

The media, newspapers and TV will feed the children whatever they don't want to hear or be. And children will find them very alluring and catchy as a result they fall victims to the media at large. Therefore you got to speak to your children the words of blessings so that you get what you speak and that may be your true intention.

Majority of parents aren't happy with their children today because these parents didn't speak blessings into their children and when their children didn't find any goodness or talents or encouragement in them, they began to drift apart from their parents. The children looked for sources which affirmed them when they had doubts or fears. The media made certain things look so appealing and good that the children began to admire about them. And later they wanted to have or be like them though it wouldn't make them happy.

It is very important that we should speak only the blessings that we want to see in our life. If we don't desire for the good things, we won't get them in our life. Let's speak for one another the goodness and bless each other with all the things which are responsible to make our lives better and successful.

Speak the positive to your children, and avoid as much as you can to speak curses because curses are negative words and they are powerful. Human words are creative forces and they can create fear, doubt or courage and confidence. You must see that you speak good about everybody so that the blessing you send out will return manifold.

Speak the blessings, encourage one another, affirm with good qualities and build a new person.

Alwed Ekka
Guide Coach Mentor